Compatibility versus Chemistry : A necessary Insight!

These two terminologies (Compatibility and Chemistry) may seem quite close to each other
when it comes to their application, thus Team Datsme felt a dire need to untangle these threads
that create confusion, and give you a better understanding of relationships and reality.
We have already studied Compatibility, now its time to banish its delusional cousin Chemistry.
Chemistry is the emotional connection present when two people are together.
Teo people who have a high degree of Chemistry have emotional makeups and personalities
that bring out warm, fuzzy emotions in other, creating a kind of positive feedback loop through
which they continue to make each other feel better and better. When you have a high degree of
chemistry with someone, They monopolize your thoughts and your free time.
You'll stay up talking until the sun comes up, or not even feel like an hour went by.
Whatever you are feeling, The other person is most likely feeling it too. Chemistry is felt by both
partners equally. Example, Introverts have a high degree of Chemistry with Extroverts, People
who are orderly and intense planners often work best with people who are spontaneous and
unorganized.
Lack of Chemistry does not repel one another. A lack of Chemistry results in lack of emotional
intensity.
Compatibility and Chemistry does not always necessarily occur together. A relationship with
high compatibility but low chemistry is likely to be a boring yet convinient series of meetings and
conversations, dry and dull until both parties simply stop caring and drift apart, or they
consummate their mutual convenience by getting married and promise themselves a lifetime of
simple companionship.
High Chemistry and Low Compatobility, on the other hand, leads to disaster. Sometimes it is
very complicated, It's when it feels so right, but you know it's so wrong. It's the person you know
who is bad for you but you can't stop seeing. Your behavior becomes completely irrational and
your thoughts distort.
And soon you, and your fellow torture-victim-of-choice initiate a perpetual cycle of mutual
emotional immolation, both spiraling through love/hate cycles together at the speed of life. High
level of chemistry with major incompatobilities is bad news. Really bad news.
These relationships usually begin quicky and passionately, exploding like a flaming geyser,
ehich then extinguishes just as quickly as it began.
Navigating the territory of bonds with confidence requires you to understand these concepts.
To give you an overview,
1. Low Compatibility, Low Chemistry - It's a no go. Abort Mission.
2. Low Compatibility, High Chemistry - A Disaster! Save yourself! That is why we are warning
you before it's too late.
3. High Compatibility, Low Chemistry - Would work but only if you like things dull and are ready
to settle for a simple companionship.
4. High Compatibility, High Chemistry - This is what we are looking for! This is gold right here!
What makes a great friend?
A perfect mix of chemistry and compatibility.
Recognize when these souls come into your life. Hold on to them. Invest in them.
Team Datsme wants to let you know that Introspection, Meaning, Reflection and Implementing
positive changes in life is a regular process that makes you a better person everytime you do it.
The only limit is you!
Remember, We love you and care about you like we love our own selves.
If you support us and what we do, Join our cause by downloading the "Datsme" app from
Google Play Store now.
We are changing the world, by changing your world.







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Compatibility versus Chemistry : A necessary Insight!

These two terminologies (Compatibility and Chemistry) may seem quite close to each other
when it comes to their application, thus Team Datsme felt a dire need to untangle these threads
that create confusion, and give you a better understanding of relationships and reality.
We have already studied Compatibility, now its time to banish its delusional cousin Chemistry.
Chemistry is the emotional connection present when two people are together.
Teo people who have a high degree of Chemistry have emotional makeups and personalities
that bring out warm, fuzzy emotions in other, creating a kind of positive feedback loop through
which they continue to make each other feel better and better. When you have a high degree of
chemistry with someone, They monopolize your thoughts and your free time.
You'll stay up talking until the sun comes up, or not even feel like an hour went by.
Whatever you are feeling, The other person is most likely feeling it too. Chemistry is felt by both
partners equally. Example, Introverts have a high degree of Chemistry with Extroverts, People
who are orderly and intense planners often work best with people who are spontaneous and
unorganized.
Lack of Chemistry does not repel one another. A lack of Chemistry results in lack of emotional
intensity.
Compatibility and Chemistry does not always necessarily occur together. A relationship with
high compatibility but low chemistry is likely to be a boring yet convinient series of meetings and
conversations, dry and dull until both parties simply stop caring and drift apart, or they
consummate their mutual convenience by getting married and promise themselves a lifetime of
simple companionship.
High Chemistry and Low Compatobility, on the other hand, leads to disaster. Sometimes it is
very complicated, It's when it feels so right, but you know it's so wrong. It's the person you know
who is bad for you but you can't stop seeing. Your behavior becomes completely irrational and
your thoughts distort.
And soon you, and your fellow torture-victim-of-choice initiate a perpetual cycle of mutual
emotional immolation, both spiraling through love/hate cycles together at the speed of life. High
level of chemistry with major incompatobilities is bad news. Really bad news.
These relationships usually begin quicky and passionately, exploding like a flaming geyser,
ehich then extinguishes just as quickly as it began.
Navigating the territory of bonds with confidence requires you to understand these concepts.
To give you an overview,
1. Low Compatibility, Low Chemistry - It's a no go. Abort Mission.
2. Low Compatibility, High Chemistry - A Disaster! Save yourself! That is why we are warning
you before it's too late.
3. High Compatibility, Low Chemistry - Would work but only if you like things dull and are ready
to settle for a simple companionship.
4. High Compatibility, High Chemistry - This is what we are looking for! This is gold right here!
What makes a great friend?
A perfect mix of chemistry and compatibility.
Recognize when these souls come into your life. Hold on to them. Invest in them.
Team Datsme wants to let you know that Introspection, Meaning, Reflection and Implementing
positive changes in life is a regular process that makes you a better person everytime you do it.
The only limit is you!
Remember, We love you and care about you like we love our own selves.
If you support us and what we do, Join our cause by downloading the "Datsme" app from
Google Play Store now.
We are changing the world, by changing your world.







More Post
The First Shenanigan on Humanity
The Foundation of Datsme : Compatibility
Compatibility versus Chemistry : A necessary Insight!