The Foundation of Datsme : Compatibility

Social Psychological Research finds that proximity is the greatest predictor of friendships. We become friends with those people who we meet at regular intervals. This is what the Datsme app aims to do, find “compatible” people around you.
The need for compatibility
Living in a society that satisfies material wants over love, we forgot the importance of finding acceptance and meaning through deep human contact. Such assurance only resides in “Compatibility.”
It is the natural alignment of lifestyle choices and values between two people. It describes the long term potential of forming a bond between 2 people.

Types of compatibility
There are 2 schools of thoughts about compatibility.

1. Similarity rules (Proved as the best foundation for compatibility)
It states that high compatibility comes from similarities in people's lifestyle and values. We become friends with people who are like us.
More the common areas of interests and similarities, the better. When our interests diverge time spent together diminishes. It becomes uncommon for such friends to interact on a regular basis. If values are dissimilar, it becomes difficult for the friendship to thrive.
Example: Educated and Liberal people usually date other educated and liberal people. Hedonists usually date other hedonists. Insane religious nuts date other insane religious nuts etc.

2. Opposites Attract (Opposites attract, then attack)

Opposite attraction leads to dysfunctional relationships. A dysfunctional relationship is one that does not support cognitive, emotional and behavioral changes among its participants.
Example: A person who is passive and another person, who is dominant, may seem like a match. The passive individual may seek out a dominant partner. However, this is a condition of an oppressive relationship.
This is a classic case of an abusive relationship where the recipient of abuse has a “victim mentality”. One individual is dominant (the perpetrator) and the other passive (victim). It is no accident that many people come out of abusive relationships, only to enter into another such relationship.

Where we can help

Keeping this in mind, Datsme has decided to go with the first approach. But for those who like adventure and might feel inclined towards the second approach, don’t worry we have something for you in-store too.
We believe that you can grow when you have the opportunity to listen to people who are different from you. Sometimes, you develop a fixed mindset by hanging around with people who only agree with you or do the same things as you. Friends who offer new perspectives, advice, ideas and experiences can help you learn more about yourself.
Each friend represents a world in us, a world not born until they arrive. It is only by meeting and knowing them that a new world is born.
The importance of friends
Friends have a direct effect on your energy and behavior.
They act as companions, validate our beliefs about ourselves, support our autonomy and provide for other psychological needs. Each happy friend boosts our level of happiness by 9% and people with more friends also have higher pain tolerance.
Subconsciously, you mirror traits and attributes (negative and positive both) of your friends. Group of friends infect each other, influencing perceptions of acceptable behaviors. The subconscious nature of emotional mirroring means that the brain mimics what we see in the faces of people who surround us.

The Idea of Datsme

Datsme app is a light in the darkness, piercing the veil of reality and uplifting the deception. It is a reminder that a beautiful heart outweighs a beautiful body. Of course, attraction matters, but not at the cost of compromising the foundation of a bond.
The world is programmed to believe that beauty is how things appear on the outside and depends on how they look. But now, it’s time to redefine the standards and conventions of beauty and human interaction by promoting positivity and love. We are shaping the very basis of human interaction and emotions.
The app has a psychological basis, where YOU and your social life matters, providing the accuracy you need. In a world full of materialistic and superficial things that people focus on, Datsme has its own niche which emphasizes on propinquity, similarities, self disclosure, reciprocity, and various other psychological factors that intertwine to form beautiful human relationships. It crosses all the boundaries and helps you find people from across the spectrum.
We are now taking a stand for Humanity.
This upcoming social media platform is a reminder that good people still exist out there. We are here to restore the things back to order, to truth, to righteousness, to the “real” good vibes and to blow away the deception.
We are here to let you know that we care about you and we love you like we love our own selves. The change starts with us. If you like what we believe in and want to support us, Join our cause by downloading “Datsme” app from Google Play Store.

We are changing the world, by changing your world.
We might not be the change the world wants, But We are the Change the World Needs!

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The Foundation of Datsme : Compatibility

Social Psychological Research finds that proximity is the greatest predictor of friendships. We become friends with those people who we meet at regular intervals. This is what the Datsme app aims to do, find “compatible” people around you.
The need for compatibility
Living in a society that satisfies material wants over love, we forgot the importance of finding acceptance and meaning through deep human contact. Such assurance only resides in “Compatibility.”
It is the natural alignment of lifestyle choices and values between two people. It describes the long term potential of forming a bond between 2 people.

Types of compatibility
There are 2 schools of thoughts about compatibility.

1. Similarity rules (Proved as the best foundation for compatibility)
It states that high compatibility comes from similarities in people's lifestyle and values. We become friends with people who are like us.
More the common areas of interests and similarities, the better. When our interests diverge time spent together diminishes. It becomes uncommon for such friends to interact on a regular basis. If values are dissimilar, it becomes difficult for the friendship to thrive.
Example: Educated and Liberal people usually date other educated and liberal people. Hedonists usually date other hedonists. Insane religious nuts date other insane religious nuts etc.

2. Opposites Attract (Opposites attract, then attack)

Opposite attraction leads to dysfunctional relationships. A dysfunctional relationship is one that does not support cognitive, emotional and behavioral changes among its participants.
Example: A person who is passive and another person, who is dominant, may seem like a match. The passive individual may seek out a dominant partner. However, this is a condition of an oppressive relationship.
This is a classic case of an abusive relationship where the recipient of abuse has a “victim mentality”. One individual is dominant (the perpetrator) and the other passive (victim). It is no accident that many people come out of abusive relationships, only to enter into another such relationship.

Where we can help

Keeping this in mind, Datsme has decided to go with the first approach. But for those who like adventure and might feel inclined towards the second approach, don’t worry we have something for you in-store too.
We believe that you can grow when you have the opportunity to listen to people who are different from you. Sometimes, you develop a fixed mindset by hanging around with people who only agree with you or do the same things as you. Friends who offer new perspectives, advice, ideas and experiences can help you learn more about yourself.
Each friend represents a world in us, a world not born until they arrive. It is only by meeting and knowing them that a new world is born.
The importance of friends
Friends have a direct effect on your energy and behavior.
They act as companions, validate our beliefs about ourselves, support our autonomy and provide for other psychological needs. Each happy friend boosts our level of happiness by 9% and people with more friends also have higher pain tolerance.
Subconsciously, you mirror traits and attributes (negative and positive both) of your friends. Group of friends infect each other, influencing perceptions of acceptable behaviors. The subconscious nature of emotional mirroring means that the brain mimics what we see in the faces of people who surround us.

The Idea of Datsme

Datsme app is a light in the darkness, piercing the veil of reality and uplifting the deception. It is a reminder that a beautiful heart outweighs a beautiful body. Of course, attraction matters, but not at the cost of compromising the foundation of a bond.
The world is programmed to believe that beauty is how things appear on the outside and depends on how they look. But now, it’s time to redefine the standards and conventions of beauty and human interaction by promoting positivity and love. We are shaping the very basis of human interaction and emotions.
The app has a psychological basis, where YOU and your social life matters, providing the accuracy you need. In a world full of materialistic and superficial things that people focus on, Datsme has its own niche which emphasizes on propinquity, similarities, self disclosure, reciprocity, and various other psychological factors that intertwine to form beautiful human relationships. It crosses all the boundaries and helps you find people from across the spectrum.
We are now taking a stand for Humanity.
This upcoming social media platform is a reminder that good people still exist out there. We are here to restore the things back to order, to truth, to righteousness, to the “real” good vibes and to blow away the deception.
We are here to let you know that we care about you and we love you like we love our own selves. The change starts with us. If you like what we believe in and want to support us, Join our cause by downloading “Datsme” app from Google Play Store.

We are changing the world, by changing your world.
We might not be the change the world wants, But We are the Change the World Needs!

More Post
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